Ok. Was in the cell group today then Pastor was discussing about relationship and he provided us with this material which i find quite handy, practical and realistic. Ask yourself these questions when a guy is going after you or when you feel you wanna initiate with that girl.
1. Choose someone who is happy, not someone who relies on you for happiness.
'- Statistics show that ppl who have learned how to be happy when they are single have a better chance of being happy when they are married.
2. Choose someone who is honest and truthful about him/herself and others.
3. Choose someone who knows hot to work.
'- Laziness is a warning signal! According to the Bible, a person who is not industrious is less wise than an ant. The ants instinctively know that anything worth having is achieved through consistent effort. But the lazy person is always looking for a short-cut. Also, a lazy person may continually blame you for his or her failures after marriage (Proverbs 6:6-11)
4. Choose someone you feel at ease with, someone you be yourself with.
5. Choose someone whod oes not expect you to compromise your convictions.
6. Choose someone who brings out the best in you.
7. Choose someone you respect, not someone you feel sorry for.
